I talked a while ago about the fits and starts with developmental delays. Jojo will make a big leap, and then we will go for a while with seemingly no progress. We’re living in a leap right now and it is so fun. And it is thanks to this fantastic little contraption. Jojo has mastered this scooter and now is getting around on her own. This has been a game changer. Her curiosity to explore the word is unfolding at a rapid pace.
There is a cause and effect dynamic that while hard to articulate, is easy to observe. The more she can move and explore on her own, the more her intellect shines through, and the more she tries to communicate. She talks all the time, most of which is unintelligible, or what we call babble. Words are surfacing clearly more and more (fork up!) which supports my hypothesis that she has been speaking English for the last year, and the low tone in the muscles that support speech obfuscate what she’s saying.
When Jojo’s brother was first crawling, we had to baby proof like crazy. He got into everything. Seriously, everything. We left all the baby proofing in place, thinking Jojo wasn’t far behind. We had to get this huge obtrusive gate for our stairs, as we have stairs going up and down from the main floor. I’ve been thinking of taking the gate down recently. Then bam! We need it! Jojo is scooting right up to it. She’s opening kitchen drawers, getting out all the toys and not cleaning up. I left a basket of folded laundry on the floor by the stairs and she pulled it all out and threw it around. I’ve never been so pleased and amused to refold a load of laundry.
When our first kiddo got into things “he wasn’t supposed to” I was irritated. I would never have let him tear apart a basket of folded laundry. Which now in hindsight seems absurd. If you have to choose between a neat, orderly home and a kid that wants and is able to explore, well that is a very easy choice to make. Because life is messy, and who cares if your little munchkin adds a little more mess. So to Jojo I say: explore your world, make a mess, figure things out, go, do, pull, push, try, fail, try again, laugh, try something else, scream in frustration, try again, clap and smile, and just keep going. It is all right here waiting for you. I will refold one thousand loads of laundry for you.